“I still find each day too short for all the thoughts I want to think, all the walks I want to take, all the books I want to read, and all the friends I want to see.” — John Burroughs
Just before my 40th birthday a colleague and friend, Chad was in an accident.
In the days and months of recovery, Chad faced and overcame numerous challenges. My family and I wanted to DO something to help. Chad was always willing to go the extra mile for people. He’d given me a crash-course in roofing while we worked on a Habitat for Humanity home. He patiently guided me through the myriad of mortgage banking details. Most importantly he did everything with a smile and wasn’t afraid of hard work! My kids and I talked about selling homemade cookies and other ideas, but my husband encouraged us to think big. My 40th birthday was just around the corner and I really wanted to do something meaningful. I didn’t want it to just be about me. My husband was also turning 40 and we’d be celebrating our Anniversary. We decided to roll it all into one and throw a “Celebrate Life” fundraiser with our family and friends.
We asked for donations with the following philosophy “anything’s appreciated, nothing’s expected”. We sold $5 raffle tickets so that even if people couldn’t be there they could support the cause and have a chance to win something. We did this without telling Chad and his family.
I confess I was a little nervous about how much money we’d be able to raise. But then I thought of my Father-in-Law’s advice, “You’re only responsible for your actions, not the outcome.” We ended up raising just over $4,000 to help Chad and his family put towards a new van to help him adjust to life in a wheelchair. The best part was being able to stop in to say “Hi” to Chad at work and surprise him with a check that he knew nothing about.
There are two things that I think are important about this experience. The first is that as futile as it is to let everyone we respect, admire and care about know that…we have
to try! Second, we never really know who is out there being inspired by something we’ve said or done and/or who is out there cheering us on.
I say this because I want to say “Thank you” to all the wonderful people, the KettleWorx Fan Page FRIENDS on Facebook who cheer and share the journey towards our common goals to become better in a multitude of ways! If you haven’t yet stopped by for a visit, you will have to do so—the organic exchange of people who are genuinely passionate about connecting and encouraging others is wonderful!
Have a Happy & Healthy Thanksgiving!